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January 6, 2011

Maintenance/Alimony and Divorce in Missouri

Filed under: Divorce,Family Law,Support — kurthking @ 5:39 pm
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Spouses headed for divorce often wonder about maintenance–what used to be called alimony.

Here in the Kansas City area, and presumably other Missouri courts, the judges lean away from maintenance. This is especially true where the marriage is short–less than 10 years for instance.

Maintenance in the typical situation arises when one spouse lacks income to pay his/her necessary bills while the other spouse has income to contribute. Many times a judge will take a sharp pencil, so to speak, to the expense amounts of the needy spouse; then do likewise to the expenses of the spouse who may have extra income. If that review shows a legitmate shortage of income for one spouse, and income remaining after expenses for the other spouse, then the extra income may be ordered paid to the needy spouse in an amount that the court finds is best after the court also considers the factors set out in Missouri statute 452.335 (marital misconduct, time to re-educate, etc.). Often times neither spouse is really happy about a maintenance order–one spouse thinks it too high, while the other thinks the amount awarded is too low.

A major consideration in maintenance cases is how long will the payor have to pay maintenance. Death or remarriage of the payee often terminates the obligation to pay maintenance unless the parties have agree otherwise. The key to keep in mind, however, is that unless there is sufficient proof of a definite date that maintenance is no longer needed, it may be required to be paid until such death or remarriage which may be years and years down the road.

Because the risk of an open-ended order to pay maintenance with no termination date is so great, many spouses faced with a real possibility of the court ordering he/she to pay maintenance often negotiate about a stop date on maintenance. To get that stop date, the paying spouse often has to give up assets or agree to pay a somewhat high amount per month as compared to what he/she thinks he would have to pay if he left it up to the judge to set the amount and duration.

Another motivation for settling to get a definite stop date on maintenance is that without the agreement, the party receiving maintenance can later file a motion to modify under Missouri statute section 452.370 to increase the amount or duration of maintenance being paid. To make that case for modification, the receiving party must prove a substantial and continuing change of circumstances based on the facts of the case. Negotiating a written agreement on maintenance with a provision that it is non-modifiable protects against a later modification case to increase maintenance.

A pretrial conference with the judge is a good way to get a read on what the judge may do and thus what it may take to reach an agreement on maintenance. Each legitimate maintenance case tends to turn on its own facts and there is no formula in which to simply plug numbers as with child support. The experience of counsel in similar cases may be best guide, aided by the pretrial conference.

Kurt H. King
Law Office of Kurt H. King
816.781.6000
20 E. Franklin
Liberty, Clay County, Missouri 64068
http://www.kurthking.com

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January 5, 2011

Changing Child Custody or Support by Agreement in Missouri–Get a Court Order!

Filed under: Custody,Family Law,Support — kurthking @ 5:45 pm
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What if father pays child support and mother brings the children to him and says, “you take care of them–and I don’t want any child support?” What happens if the father stops sending in his child support to the Family Support Payment Center? And, what if mother changes mind 7 months later and takes children back?

The father in this example needs to file to get a court order immediately based on a stipulation/agreement with mother, or otherwise if she won’t sign a stipulation, changing custody and terminating his child support obligation.

If he fails to do so, his child support obligation does NOT stop, he builds up a child support non-payment arrearage, and he lacks the court order to prove that he now has the primary/home/residential custody rights to the children. That let’s the mother in this example walk back in and take the chilren–even claim the back due child support that accrued while the father had the children (she may or may not win on the back support but she puts father out to hire an lawyer and try to get court order that he does not owe the back support).

This happens time and again, often to folks who cannot afford to make a mistake and cannot repay back child support.

Get A Court Order or Beware.

Kurt H. King
Law Office of Kurt H. King
816.781.6000
20 E. Franklin
Liberty, Clay County, Missouri 64068
http://www.kurthking.com

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Child Support and College

Filed under: Family Law,Support — kurthking @ 5:31 pm
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Many divorced folks wonder what their child support obligation is for children in college or other post-high school education/training. There are many facets to this question but let me point out some of the main points:

1. Missouri law changed from 22 to 21 as the age up to which support is required (exceptions for non-self supporting children with special needs);
2. Parent paying child support can ask court for permission to pay support directly to the child so attending;
3. Child generally has to provide enrollment and grade information and take sufficient number of hours (be full-time, basically) or else child support obligation may be terminated;
4. Some judges expect child to pay for some of college/post H.S. education expense by student loan, work, other;
5. Some judges look at parent incomes and other factors and may not require student to pay for part of such costs;
6. In Missouri, such college/post-high school education costs are generally capped at what tuition, books, meals, and housing would cost on a plan for a regular year at the University of Missouri–not what a more expensive private or Ivy League school costs;
7. I believe most judges consider if the child commutes from home to the school, spends the summers and school breaks at home, etc., to determine how much support should continue to be paid to the home parent of the child. For example, if the child is home 4 months a year and in school dorm the other 8, then judge may consider having the total of 4 months of support, divided by 12 so that the paying parent pays a part each month of the year, continue on being paid to the home parent, so to speak.

These are some basic factors and there are usually more to be considered. What is fair for one situation may not be for another, so check it out–especially given the amount of money involved.

Kurt H. King
Law Office of Kurt H. King
816.781.6000
20 E. Franklin
Liberty, Clay County, Missouri 64068
http://www.kurthking.com

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July 20, 2010

Calculating Child Support in Missouri (via Kurt’s Take on Law)

Filed under: Custody,Divorce,Family Law,Paternity,Support — kurthking @ 9:05 pm
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Trying to get a handle on how much child support should be in Missouri?  You may find this website with child support form and software helpful–www.teamlex.com/Areas/form14.htm And the 2009 Missouri Child Support Guidelines (which change upon periodic review by the Missouri Supreme Court) may be found at–www.mobar.org/data/esq08/oct10/order-form14.pdf Remember that Missouri uses gross income and not net income (exception:  self-employed may ded … Read More

via Kurt’s Take on Law

Kurt H. King
Law Office of Kurt H. King
816.781.6000
20 E. Franklin
Liberty, Clay County, Missouri 64068
http://www.kurthking.com

Bankruptcy, Child Custody and Support, Divorce and Modification, Family Law
Personal Injury, Workers’ Compensation

February 1, 2010

Setting Aside Paternity In Missouri

Filed under: Custody,Family Law,Paternity,Support — kurthking @ 4:26 pm
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Couple things fathers may need to know about paternity cases in Missouri. A 2009 Missouri law, 210.854, lets fathers get a court order of DNA paternity testing even after a court says that a particular guy is the father of the child involved. Deadline to file is December 31, 2011, but after that date you have to file the petition to set aside the paternity judgment within 2 years of the date that established paternity. If you wait too long, you may be out of luck. Second thing to know is that the local Clay County, Missouri, court clerk requires that you know the child’s SSN to file the case. Some mother’s don’t want to tell a guy that he is the father and do not trust him with the child’s SSN.

This law is a good thing for a father who failed to request a paternity test.  That happens sometimes when a father does not understand the Missouri court rules, did not see the notice of his right to request a paternity test, or maybe simply was sure he was the father but now is not.

Kurt H. King
Law Office of Kurt H. King
816.781.6000
20 E. Franklin
Liberty, Clay County, Missouri 64068
http://www.kurthking.com

Bankruptcy, Child Custody and Support, Divorce and Modification, Family Law
Personal Injury, Workers’ Compensation

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